I have a friend who migrated from Asia to another country together with her husband. But before that, she applied for work first and by the time she got the job, it’s then she processed all of her papers. At first she worked as a home based call center agent while her husband got the position of one of the Software Engineer Jobs available. Since they left their two kids with the care of their parents, they’re processing all of the papers and it’s good that after 8 months, they’re able to petition their kids. When their family was all together, my friend was promoted to a global compensation manager. After that, my friend and her family bought a new home to live with happily and comfortably that they can call their own.

And I love the story of my friend. It’s a success of a family with full of love and happiness!

Lilewule - Personal | Tags: | August 26, 2011

Every time I will get mad with not knowing how to feed himself, there’s a voice that I will tell within me, EMPATHIZE YOUR KID. Every time I will almost get angry or whenever I will get angry at him, there is this tiny voice that will say YOU FEED HIM, GIVE HIM FOOD, IT’S NOT FOREVER THAT YOU WILL FEED HIM, FOR NOW, HE WILL SAY I NEED YOU MAMA, THERE WILL BE A TIME HE WILL SAY, WHY WILL I NEED YOU WHEN I CAN DO THINGS ON MY OWN. Sigh! And so, I will get back into my feet and take good care of him. Besides he is still five years old kid with lots of food allergies and he needs to be taken care of. I know that when he will be big, he will not be having enough time for me. And so I must enjoy while he is still small and treasure my time with my kid. Few years from now, he will be teenager and I know when that time will come, he will hate me for being so dominant and bossy on him. Sigh!

Lilewule - Family-Parenting | Tags: | August 23, 2011

Guest post written by Jeramy Sparks

Who in their right mind would put dishes in a box and not wrap them up in anything before a big move? Apparently my husband would, that’s who. When we got to the new house all of our wedding china was smashed to bits and there were very few of my figurines left unharmed…I was so mad I could have strangled him! Moving’s stressful enough without having to deal with tons of broken stuff when you get to your destination! My husband had gotten us internet from WILDbluedeals.Com/ and he’s been online all day looking for replacement china but I don’t really think that’s going to happen since they discontinued it years ago. I know he feels really bad but he should – how careless can you be? This just goes to show why I feel like you have to do everything yourself and you can’t really trust anyone to help with anything…I’m a perfectionist and there’s nothing wrong with it because it means our stuff is fine when we move, usually!

Lilewule - Personal | Tags: | August 22, 2011

During the time I had my blood patch for epidural ache treatment, the nurse hooked ecg monitoring on me. I asked her about it and she said the anesthesiologist would just like to knew if I was okay or not. Before the procedure, they’re having a hard time extracting my blood until the anesthesiologist said to extract it from my IVTT.

Anyway, I only had 10cc of blood patch and it works wonder. Though, they said it’s not enough coz usually they will use 20-30cc or even more. I told them that I was fine with it. I mean 10cc was better than nothing and it cure my epidural aches which was draining me a lot coz there’s no pain reliever that will help me aid the pain. It’s only my blood after undergoing a blood patch procedure at the outpatient surgery. After everything was done, I was sent home.

Lilewule - Personal | Tags: | August 12, 2011

Who couldn’t resist in not appreciating and not feeling so special when being given some diamond rings by loved ones? I bet everybody would love these precious jewelries a lot. One particular person who always received diamonds is my cousin who is married to a Norwegian guy. She has lots of diamonds and that’s from diamond rings, necklace, earrings, etc. She’s also showered with different types of properties such as house and lot which cost millions way back home, financial support for her parents and siblings, precious cars, and other materials things. My cousin is so happy with all of the material things but then she’s happier with the love that her husband gave to her. For her it’s incomparable more than any other material things in the world. All in all, she’s thankful for all material blessings and for the love, care, acceptance, etc. Her life now is truly a blessing!

Lilewule - Personal | Tags: | August 9, 2011

I thought that my eldest is still a baby. I thought that he is still so small and that he needs to grow big quickly. I just find out that he’s already a big boy when I came home from the hospital more than a week ago.

Anyway, hope he will learn to accept that he is not the only child in the house and he can’t have all of my time. Right now, he is still a bit jealous with his sister and he’s still adjusting with the fact that he needs to share time, space and all since he is already a big brother!

Lilewule - Personal | Tags: | August 9, 2011